The wet kiss of death

Last week I pronounced, with great boldness, that I would be publishing recaps on Saturday.
With some smugness and satisfaction, I went on my way for the next three days.
Previous plans
Then, it was pointed out to me that previous plans had been made for my presence in another far-away city Saturday, and that I would be an integral part of a convoy on the highway for the three hours it takes to get to that far-away city.
When my plans have been on “the book” for that short period of time, they are easier to change since the ink isn't dry yet, but they were plans. My plans.
And although I dearly love the coming activity in that far away city, I still have to admit a little disappointment.
It is hard enough sometimes for me to make a decision, but then when I finally make one only to have it wiped out is especially daunting.
So, I have re-learned this simple principle to help avoid quick retreats.
Simple principle.
Never make a bold decision and announce it. Always use your weasel words if you ever have to talk or write about it.
Whenever we, as writers, make big picture plans, somewhere there are released hoards of pestilence heading our way.
What I meant to say a couple of days ago, was that it was my idea of a possibility that circumstances would be right to allow a window of opportunity for the publication of an update, if everything goes as planned, but who really knows?
It will be “the weekend.”
Make your plans.
Go ahead and make your plans. Put them on your calendar. Don't hide your calendar in your desk drawer, you can still hear it laughing in there. But you can’t see it. So it won't do you any good.
Just go into your project with some flexibility. Not the “do you feel lucky, punk?” flexibility, but some reasonable alternative time schedule. Don’t micromanage upfront. Just big picture it, and niche down as you go.
Then when you finally can cross your plans off, it’s your turn to laugh at your calendar.
Thank you.
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